Are You Beating Up On Yourself About Debt? By: Mario Castagno
By Mario Castagno ©2004 All Rights Reserved http://www.fcdebt.com
When you
hear the word "debt", whats the first thought or feeling
that comes to you? For most people debt is "bad" or it
becomes the "enemy" and is something that should be
avoided like the plague.
Having debt does not make you a bad
person. The more a situation is judged as being bad, the
worse it gets. It's the judgement that you have around
debt, that will keep you feeling "stuck". It's the
judgement that brings out the anxiety, the fear, the stress, the knot in the stomach.
It's the
old success principle: what you focus on expands. So
what are you focusing on? Getting out of debt is an
inside job first! What that means is taking 100%
responsibility for your debts and admitting to yourself
that you have an obligation, and knowing and believing
that you will fulfill that obligation, by paying your
creditors as quickly as possible.
No one
wants to be stressed, or worry about living beyond their
means. Most people are very uncomfortable talking about
the subject of money and debt. And since the subject of
money management is NOT normally taught in chools, where
do we learn about it?
From our families, friends,
co-workers etc, tv shows. These are people who mean
well, and it's been my experience that they are usually
passing along information that may be outdated, and no
longer relevant for the times that we currently live in
and may or may not apply to you and your life. It is THEIR opinions and beliefs.
Once again it doesn't make it a
"good" or "bad" thing. The answer is to find a solution
that "works" for you and your particular situation. Keep
in mind, that once you decide to become debt free, it
will become crystal clear that not everyone thinks that becoming debt free is a good idea.
Everyone
from your local bank to your grocery store, want you to
buy on credit. Realize that "credit" is a tool that can
serve you, or NOT serve you. Here are some tips for
becoming debt free.
1) Admit that you have debt, and
are willing to become debt free. This is the most
important step and is part of being 100% responsible,
and being open to finding a solution. Without knowing
where you are now, you are probably not going to be able
to plot out a plan or map to where you want to go.
2) Don’t
add any more debt. This is all about changing habits,
beliefs, and attitudes about buying on credit. Your
attitudes about money/credit may have served you up to
this point, and the good news is that you can now make new choices that support you.
Remember "life" happens and there may be times when you
may have to use credit. If this should happen DON'T beat
yourself up. Just continue down your path of debt
reduction and the ultimate goal of inancial freedom.
3) Start
to pay off the debt NOW. This seems like an obvious and
simple step, and it's simple to do and also simple NOT
to do. Afterall we are human beings, and change is not
something that we are very comfortable with. Put all our
debts on paper, so that you are clear about what you
owe. One of the best strategies to debt reduction is the
"something-something" principle. Focus on paying (1)
creditor off at a time. This will keep your energy
concentrated, and your debt reduction efforts will be
more effective, than trying to pay off everyone at one time.
4) Take "extra" money and apply it
toward your debt. Where can you get the "extra" money?
Start to watch where you spend your money. For example:
using coupons, or shopping at a warehouse club, can save
you thousands of dollars over the course of a year.
These savings can be used to pay down your debt quickly and effortlessly.
Keep in mind that your past doesn't
equal your future. Look at your current financial
situation as a "learning" experience, and an area that
you are able to improve on....versus a place that you
are judging yourself for a mistake. Many people just
like you have been able to eliminate their debt. The good news is....so can you!!!!
Author Info Box: `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````` The author, Mario Castagno is the webmaster of http://www.fcdebt.com, a resource for debt reduction programs.
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About the AuthorMario Castagno is the webmaster of http://www.fcdebt.com, a resource for debt reduction programs. ...
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